Big Ask Question of the Day
Big Ask Question of the Day

Episode 10 · 6 months ago

If someone wanted to make me very angry using only words, what would they have to say to me?

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If someone wanted to make me very angry using only words, what would they have to say to me?

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It's time for you can't just stop bigask question of the day. Welcome to you can't just stop the place for quietlystubborn entrepreneurs with big goals and dreams. After encountering hundredsof hie achieving athletes, entrepreneurs and world changers. I'vediscovered that many times their impact comes from the questions they ask asmuch as the actions they take. That's why I invite you to answer a questioneach and every day to reach your doles. If some one wanted to make me veryangry, using only words, what would they have to say to me? So, what's your trigger? What is it that somebody has to say toyou that you just instantly you're just going to go off inside your own head?What is what are the? What is the phrase or the sentence that is justgoing to make you spin out of control again, this is a very personal question.I probably I'm not going to share with you what I think of when I think ofthis question other than to say that,...

...usually it says a lot more about methan about them so when they say something to me, thatreally just makes me go off in whatever direction into a self loathing placeinto a dark place into a hateful place whatever it is. When somebody says something to me thattriggers me it's the phrase of two thousand twenty two thousand and twentyone. Whenever I have been triggered, it's my own fault, usually that'ssomething that I'm giving meaning to that. I shouldn't be giving meaning toare I'm giving power to a person I shouldn't be giving power to so you know. Is there some phrase thatsets you off and why? Why does that phrase set you off and is there a waythat you can take away the power of that phrase? What you can? What can youdo to minimize that or prevent that from happening? Maybe it's just keepingthis person or people like that out of...

...your life, or maybe it's just learning, to spinthat in a different direction. I mean many times when I've had this happen tome and I think back about the conversation, I realized that I'm making assumptionsone of the one of the deadly sins right, I'm making assumptions about what theymean by that or the meaning behind that and many times when I go back andanalyze that meaning wasn't really there. My assumption wasn't true, and Igave some one power over me that I shouldn't have so what's that phrasefor you and how can you minimize its impact? That's all for today's questionfor more great questions to help you achieve your doles download. My fiftyfavorite questions at you can't just stop com SA questions or subscribe tothe Yutu Channel, and you can't just stop com s. You Tu see you tomorrow.

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